Obituary for Judy K. Hetterscheidt

Condolence From: SUSANNE kAYE, Nashua, New Hampshire
Condolence: Judy Hetterscheidt was one of my best friends and one of the kindest, most generous people I have ever known. We met when she came to work at Main Dunstable Elementary School in Nashua, New Hampshire; we were both 38 years old. We worked together on a daily basis as members of the same 4-person teaching team. From the get-go, it was evident to me that Judy was intensely curious and extremely hard-working, creative, and dependable. She would arrive at school at 7am and wouldn’t leave until 7pm everyday. She was passionate about teaching and showed great compassion for her students.

Though we only taught together for one year, Judy, Jan Kelliher (another teacher friend), and I spent a lot of time talking (and walking and planning and laughing) together and eventually grew to be as close as sisters. When the decision was made to move to Missouri, Judy decided to remain with me in Nashua while the new house was being built. So, for eight months, we actually lived together. During this time, we traveled together every weekend, regularly visiting historical sites all over Massachusetts. Judy’s excitement and enthusiasm for learning was contagious.

After Judy moved to St. Louis, we continued to talk by phone everyday. We kept up that practice for 20-25 years (sometimes talking 2-3 times per day) until Judy became sick and it became more challenging for her to speak by phone. We also travelled together every summer. The last trip that we took was to Washington, D.C. where we enjoyed the Cherry Blossom Festival together. Judy helped me renovate my home in Nashua and stayed with me on several occasions at my home in Florida.

I clicked with Judy from the moment we met and always felt like I experienced unconditional love from her. We laughed and cried together and had many memorable adventures out in the world. Judy was a gentle soul who brought me and so many others great joy.

I am comforted by the image of Judy in heaven—at peace, surrounded by beauty, and knowing that she is deeply loved and fondly remembered by all those she touched during her time on earth. I will always hold her in my heart and will cherish my memories of our time together forever.

Condolence From: SUSANNE kAYE, Nashua, NH
Condolence: Judy Hetterscheidt was one of my best friends and one of the kindest, most generous people I have ever known. We met when she came to work at Main Dunstable Elementary School in Nashua, New Hampshire; we were both 38 years old. We worked together on a daily basis as members of the same 4-person teaching team. From the get-go, it was evident to me that Judy was intensely curious and extremely hard-working, creative, and dependable. She would arrive at school at 7am and wouldn’t leave until 7pm everyday. She was passionate about teaching and showed great compassion for her students.

Though we only taught together for one year, Judy, Jan Kelliher (another teacher friend), and I spent a lot of time talking (and walking and planning and laughing) together and eventually grew to be as close as sisters. When the decision was made to move to Missouri, Judy decided to remain with me in Nashua while the new house was being built. So, for eight months, we actually lived together. During this time, we traveled together every weekend, regularly visiting historical sites all over Massachusetts. Judy’s excitement and enthusiasm for learning was contagious.

After Judy moved to St. Louis, we continued to talk by phone everyday. We kept up that practice for 20-25 years (sometimes talking 2-3 times per day) until Judy became sick and it became more challenging for her to speak by phone. We also travelled together every summer. The last trip that we took was to Washington, D.C. where we enjoyed the Cherry Blossom Festival together. Judy helped me renovate my home in Nashua and stayed with me on several occasions at my home in Florida.

I clicked with Judy from the moment we met and always felt like I experienced unconditional love from her. We laughed and cried together and had many memorable adventures out in the world. Judy was a gentle soul who brought me and so many others great joy.

I am comforted by the image of Judy in heaven—at peace, surrounded by beauty, and knowing that she is deeply loved and fondly remembered by all those she touched during her time on earth. I will always hold her in my heart and will cherish my memories of our time together forever.

Condolence From: Lindsay Kestner Woods, St. Louis, MO
Condolence: Mrs. Hetterscheidt was one of my favorite teachers! I had her in 5th grade at Bellerive Elementary (Parkway) in 1991-1992. I still remember the fun we had in her class and how she created such a close-knit learning community where we all felt safe to take risks with our learning. She was part of my inspiration to become an educator myself. She will always be loved and remembered!

Condolence From: Lynn/Bill Woodard.Cooper, Westerville, OH
Condolence: We did not know Judi but are so very sorry for your loss at a difficult time of year. May our Good Lord provide comfort during your grieving this year. May the wonderful life you had with Judi provide the memories needed to move forward in time.
With Christian love, Bill and Lynn @ 21

Condolence From: Erin Shabdue, Westerville, OH
Condolence: My heart aches and it brings tears to my eyes thinking of my fond memories of Judy and the courageous battle she fought over the years. She was not just a school teacher but she was always a caregiver. But most of all she was a beautiful aunt to my kids. It's a difficult time for all but hope you can fall back on all the happy memories and especially her laugh! Erin

Condolence From: Donna Waters, Chesterfield, MO
Condolence: I am heartbroken to hear of Judy's passing. She was my friend, my mentor, and the best teacher I ever had. I love her and I will miss her. Craig, I pray that you find comfort and peace in the days ahead.

Condolence From: Steve and Marcia Bruce, Westerville, Ohio
Condolence: We are so sorry to hear of Judy’s passing. Please accept our deepest condolences. Steve and Marcia Bruce.

Condolence From: Jim and Barb Knapp, Westerville, Ohio
Condolence: Barb and I extend our deepest sympathy for your loss. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim

Condolence From: Greg Gilkeson, Westerville, Ohio
Condolence: Steve and I are so very sorry for this very difficult time that you are enduring.
With great love comes great loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Condolence From: Milli Lattanza, Toledo, Ohio
Condolence: Judy was such a sweet, funny person. Her dry sense of humor always made me laugh. She was so kind and caring and I am sure was a wonderful teacher. I know that she was a wonderful sister and aunt.

Even though I did not see her very often I will definitely miss her and my heart goes out to her family, especially Craig, Randy and Lynn.